this is like a pop culture version of Cosmos cosmic calendar smashed together with the real one
Mother of god
I have been homesick for you since we met.The Avett Brothers (via here-soon-please)
Once in a while it really hits people that they don’t have to experience the world in the way they have been told to.Alan Keightley (via psych-facts)
What Sex Feels Like for a Guy.
"Some girls wanted to know more about the emotional aspects of sex for a guy, and so I want to expand on that.
Life as a Guy is not full of warmth and happiness. Girls are afraid and distrustful of you, and other guys want to kick you down the social hierarchy. You are constantly trying to prove or protect yourself. On top of that you have this near-permanent sexual longing which gets ignored, shut down or rejected often enough by most women you desire (sometimes with hostility/disgust).
Now, imagine for a minute, after getting endlessly kicked around by life… you have a person who welcomes you inside her, holds and warms you, physically and emotionally communicates, “You are good enough for me.” She satiates your cruel sexual longing, finds sexual pleasure in your presence, and basically becomes the exact opposite of the cold merciless world that exists to either beat you down or humilate/emasculate you.
Sex for a guy gives him something he can’t get anywhere else in life, which is complete trust, love and acceptance; which maybe technically isn’t true, but that’s what it FEELS like. For that little time, you really are the stud or the hero, wheras in reality you are always the poor fucker muddling along 99.5% of the time, even if you are actually pretty good at what you do. In layman’s terms, the poor fucking bastard finally catches a break.
Even if in the sex itself there’s undeniably a kind of “ha ha ha, got you!” conquering aspect sometimes, it doesn’t really negate the former. She actually welcomes you to conquer her after all!
(A blow job is awesome too, but gets different responses from different men.)
TLDR: It feels like life is finally is paying you back for existing. Woot.”
fuck I just watched this for like 3 minutes